Today husband and partner Tom Kibler said "Do you know that Facebook has totally changed its privacy settings (sorry Sara you tried to tell me but I wasn't paying attention)? I went into my account and clicked on the privacy settings and holy **** (insert whatever word you feel comfortable with there). The new default appears now to be that everyone can see everything and there are so many categories that it took me 20+ mins to change my default settings to "friends only" or "friends and networks only."

Ok I've been an idiot because I wasn't paying attention and I do love my Facebook but damn-- all I can say is you all need to go on Facebook, click on Account and then go to the Privacy Settings and after you have dealt with all of those pieces then, go back to Account and go to Application settings and do it again.

Thanks Tom and Sara.